Life After Exit: The "Post-Success" Depression
You are not your bank account. You are a builder. When you stop building, you feel empty. Don't start a new company immediately. Take a "Gap Year."
What is Identity Loss?
Identity Loss is The realization that "CEO of X" was your entire personality for 5 years, and now you are just "Unemployed guy with money."
The 3 Core Benefits
Decompression
Your cortisol levels have been high for years. Your body needs months to return to baseline. Sleep. Exercise.
Reconnection
You probably neglected your family and friends. Buy them dinner. Apologize for being absent. Rebuild relationships.
Perspective
You realize business is a game. It is not life and death. This makes your NEXT company much more fun and less stressful.
The Decompression Year
Financial Audit
Put the money in Treasury Bills or an Index Fund. Do not angel invest yet. Do not buy a Ferrari. Keep it boring for 6 months.
Get a Hobby
Something non-digital. Woodworking. Surfing. Cooking. Use your hands. Create something that doesn't need "Scale."
The "No" Phase
Say No to every coffee chat, podcast, and advisory role. Protect your peace. You don't need to "give back" yet.
Therapy
Talk to someone about the transition. It is a major life event, like a divorce or graduation.
Peer Network
Chat with other exited founders on Mesh. They know the feeling of "What now?"
Jumping Back In vs. Taking Time Off
| Feature | Jumping Back In | Taking Time Off |
|---|---|---|
| Energy | Burned Out | Restored |
| Decisions | Impulsive | Calculated |
| Happiness | Low | High |
Frequently Asked Questions
Should I angel invest?
Wait 1 year. Angel investing is gambling. You will lose money if you do it for "entertainment."
Will I lose my edge?
No. Riding a bike. You will come back sharper because you are rested, not desperate.
What if I never have a good idea again?
You will. Once you stop stressing, boredom creates ideas. Let yourself be bored.
What makes a launch channel high intent?
High-intent channels have users actively searching for solutions, not just browsing a feed.
How many channels should I launch on?
Start with 3-5 strong channels, measure conversions, then expand to 10-12 over time.
How do I avoid launch fatigue?
Stagger your launches and reuse assets so each channel gets a focused push.
What should I measure after launch?
Track qualified signups, backlinks, and demo requests, not just raw traffic.
How does Mesh of Growth fit with other platforms?
Use Mesh for compounding reviews and backlinks while other platforms provide short-term spikes.
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